June 2012
aspiringmd replied to your photo: I wonder what he was saying & what I was doing LOL
you have a pretty smile sal’dfsdlo’fj omgg :D
I appreciate it love:-)
If you don’t know how to cook and u meet/are with an African man who tells you that it’s not a big deal, I beg HE IS LYING. Listen to me carefully, u only have 1 option, well two but I won’t say the second one because I don’t want to offend anyone. Your ONLY option is to learn. If u don’t, he will eventually either leave u, cheat on you, marry a second wife, or maybe he might’ve some sense so he won’t have a second wife. He’ll just have a concubine that he starts a family with in another state or maybe if he is experienced, it will be in another country. When he gets caught he will be sure to explain to everyone that u can’t even cook, regardless of whether that is the real reason or not. And going thru all that, u r going to assume ppl will have sympathy for you but nope, they sure won’t, u will just forever be the girl nosy ppl whisper about at outdoorings, parties, funerals, Easter dances and church parking lots. They’ll say “there she goes, that’s the lady I was telling u about, the one who made her husband cheat on her. She never cooked for him, not even rice water mpo. Hmmm en3 mre mu” But don’t worry you should never care what people say about you anyway. Right?